Dear Students: Issue 9—Confidence Comes After Competence

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Dear Students: Issue 9—Confidence Comes After Competence

ISSUE 9

 

Dear Students,

One of the biggest mistakes I see students make is waiting.

Waiting until they feel ready.

Waiting until they feel confident.

Waiting until they know enough.

Waiting until they're sure they won't fail.

The problem is confidence rarely works that way.

Most people think confidence comes first.

They think confidence is what allows you to take action.

In reality, confidence is usually the result of taking action.

Not the cause of it.

 

The Student Who Won't Raise Their Hand

Every semester, there are students who know the answer.

I know they know the answer.

Their classmates know they know the answer.

But they won't raise their hand.

Why?

Because they're not completely sure.

They're waiting until they're confident.

The students who grow the fastest are usually the ones willing to be wrong publicly.

They answer the question.

They ask the question.

They show the unfinished work.

They take the risk.

Not because they're more confident.

Because they're willing to act before confidence arrives.

 

Nobody Starts Good

The first logo you create probably won't be great.

The first presentation you give will probably make you nervous.

The first client meeting might feel awkward.

The first portfolio review may leave you questioning everything.

Good.

That's how it's supposed to work.

Every designer you admire has a collection of terrible early work.

The difference is they kept going long enough to improve.

 

 

Dear Designers,

Think about driving a car.

The first time you sit behind the wheel, you're paying attention to everything.

The mirrors.

The speed.

The steering wheel.

The traffic.

The signs.

It's exhausting.

Years later, you barely think about it.

What changed?

Confidence?

No.

Competence.

The more competent you became, the more confidence naturally followed.

Design works the same way.

 

The Secret Nobody Wants to Hear

There is no shortcut to confidence.

No book.

No podcast.

No motivational quote.

No YouTube video.

Confidence is built through repetition.

Through mistakes.

Through practice.

Through experience.

Through doing the thing you're currently trying to avoid.

That's why confidence feels so frustrating.

You can't think your way into it.

You have to work your way into it.

 

A Real Example

One of the strongest students I ever taught wasn't the most talented.

She wasn't the fastest learner.

She wasn't the most naturally creative.

But she was willing to revise.

Over and over.

She asked questions.

She sought feedback.

She made improvements.

While other students waited to feel ready, she kept practicing.

By graduation, she was one of the strongest designers in the program.

Not because she started with confidence.

Because she built competence.

And confidence followed.

 

Final Thought

If you're waiting to feel confident before you start, stop waiting.

The designers you admire didn't begin with confidence.

They built it.

One project.

One critique.

One mistake.

One revision.

One uncomfortable step at a time.

As author James Clear writes: "Confidence is just displayed ability."

 

“The fastest way to build confidence isn't to believe in yourself more. It's to keep improving.”

 

In design truth,

Maggie

Designer

Experienced Designer

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